Setting high standards for Mr. or Ms. Right is a wonderful idea, for don't you deserve an ideal mate? But in this world there is no perfect mate, no perfect love, just the love that we as imperfect people are capable of offering.
So in your search, ask yourself what in a mate is really important to you? Love? Attraction? Compassion? Listening? Sensitivity? Integrity? Dependability? Strong Work Ethic? Money? Parenting Skills? Sense of Humor? Devotion? Forgiveness?
These are just some of the important attributes you will want to consider, as you list those that are most important to you. And as you do, ask yourself which of those attributes are your strong suit for not only is this a healthy self exploration but chances are your Mr. or Ms. Right will be asking the same questions as he or she thinks of you.
Dick
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