However loving they may be, every couple needs to communicate with each other. It might be to discuss issues as simple as misplaced house keys or whether to attend a particular party or something much more significant such as intimacy issues, career decisions or money matters.
But what is most important is frequent and honest communication.
This is communication in which you respectfully and diplomatically express your feelings. And every bit as important, you listen respectfully and diplomatically to what your partner has to say, making no accusations or caustic comments.
At the core of our being, each of us needs to be heard. This allows that level of communication and is an invaluable tool to resolving little issues before they become significant and major issues that effect the lives of the two of you.
Ideally you will have this communication when you are both calm and collected and can give the discussion your undivided attention and with sensitivity to your partner's needs.
For what this is is an expression of love, compassion and a desire for closeness, recognizing that thoughtful communication is the foundation of your relationship.
Dick
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