A crucial element to a long term loving relationship is to become a compassionate listener. This is something everyone deeply needs and yet it is in such short supply.
Often that deep need is satisfied by a heartfelt expression of one's thoughts and an acknowledgement from their loved one that they have been heard. Advice is usually unneeded.
Compassionate listening shows this person their deep need for expression is met with love and respect. This speaks volumes, even without a word ever being said in response.
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