If you want a much happier marriage, the following are my observations from a 47 year marriage that will serve you and your lovely wife well:
1) Listen To Her. Many of us men are not good listeners as we tend to focus only on what interests us. But our wives need to express their feelings and have their feelings acknowledged and supported by their spouses. Simply by being a good and attentive listener, you will greatly elevate your relationship.
2) Be Sensitive. Many men aggressively pursue sex with their wives with little regard for their wive's feelings. Take the time to be aware of how she feels, and if the time is right, woo her. Make her feel special and desirable.
3) Be Understanding. At times when events or circumstances are difficult for her, be their with your tenderness and support, particularly in those moments when she needs it most.
4) Be Loving. Every day tell her you love her and show her with hugs and kisses and by your considerate actions. Occasionally write her a love note or poetry. If you will woo her much as you did when your love was new your love will remain vibrant and joyous and bring great happiness into your lives.
Dick
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